I’m not sure about you, but I’m always looking for thoughtful questions to start a discussion with my kids. A good conversation helps you connect as a family, discover what’s important to each person, and lead your kids toward truth on their discipleship journey. Use these prompts during family devotions, around the dinner table, or when you gather.
In a moment, we’ll be reading James 1:19, where James challenges and encourages us to be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to become angry. This is one of those verses that is simple to read but difficult to put into practice. Think about the last time you were in a conversation and wanted to show the other person why you were right and they were wrong. I know that in such situations, I sometimes have a tough time listening because I’m already preparing my next argument. Can you relate to that? James is teaching us that God’s people should take a different approach, one that truly prioritizes listening and slowness in responding.
Let’s read the verse with your families and enjoy this challenging discussion!
In this week’s Parent-Driven Discussion, we will be learning to listen.
In a moment, we’ll be reading James 1:19, where James challenges and encourages us to be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to become angry. This is one of those verses that are simple to read but difficult to put into practice. Think about the last time you were in a conversation and wanted to show the other person why you were right and they were wrong. I know that in such situations, I sometimes have a tough time listening to the person because I’m preparing my next argument. Can you relate to that? James is teaching us that God’s people should take a different approach that truly prioritizes listening and slowness in responding.
Let’s read the verse with your families and enjoy this challenging discussion!
Discussion Questions: Learning to Listen
Read James 1:19
“Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to angry.”
- What does it mean to be a good listener?
2. When is it hardest for you to listen before speaking?
3. Why do you think God cares about how we listen to others?
4. How can we practice listening well in our family this week?
Pray
Dear Lord, thank you for loving us and being patient with us. This week, help us be good listeners, even when we want to speak first. We need your help. Amen!
Additional Resources
My Personal List of Family Discipleship Resources
Finish the School Year Strong as a Family
10 Bible Verses for the End of the School Year
Building a Realistic Family Bible Study Routine
Free Bible Coloring Pages for Kids
Looking for more ways to grow together as a family? Try our Colossians, Proverbs, or Ephesians Family Bible Studies—each includes Scripture, guided conversations, and ideas for life application.
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